Don’t marry to quick

Yes, it is easy to say yes to the first proposal that comes along, but I would live a little first. I got married the first time when I was 19 years old, and that is way too young, says Niva from London escorts. The problem with the Indian culture is that our parents expect us to marry young and produce lots of kids. That simply wasn’t for me at all. At the time I was already working for London escorts, and doing well for myself. Marriage did not work for me, and I ended up splitting up with my husband.

Now, I am 27 years old, and I still work for London escorts. Yes, I have had relationships outside of London escorts, but I am not ready to settle down yet. The truth is that I am enjoying my life too much, and I am prepared to wait. I love to think that I will get married again, but I am not so sure that will be to an Indian man. I don’t know what culture I would marry me, but I find the Indian culture too stifling and overbearing. I would so much rather have a lot more freedom in my life.

I have done really well working for London escorts, and you can say that I appreciate my independent lifestyle. My apartment is my own, and I have furnished it myself. It feel good and I know that I have achieved all of this because of my job at London escorts. The fact, is that many of the girls who work for London escorts feel the same way, and I am sure that a lot of us are very proud of what we have achieved. Why should we marry and lose it all?

Some of the girls who work for cheap London escorts company, save up their money and go on to higher education. Many of the ladies who work for London escorts, also go on to starting their own businesses and they want to have their own space as well. They seem to be happy to have men in their lives, but they often live away from their boyfriends. Why should they have to pick up after them, and look after them? I know how they feel, and I feel exactly the same way. I am not going to take care of any man, I do enough of that in my work,

I actually love London escorts, and I am every so busy. This is the kind of job that sort of takes over your life, and you get really engrossed. Also, I am rather tough since the end of marriage and I don’t tolerate any interference from my family at all. They do try but I just tell them that it is not for me to get married again, and certainly not at the moment. Okay, they don’t know what I do for a living but they have got the message. Marriage is not for me at the moment, but it might be in the future.…

Adult Long-Term Relationships

Adult Long-Term Relationships

Everybody wants to find Mr. or Mrs. Right in his/her life and definitely, no one wants to leave this earth alone! However, some individuals fail to find the so called lifetime partner because they don’t take time in making their decisions on whom to marry. Since we are living in a world full of jokers, you need to evaluate whoever comes around to know if he/she befits your heart. That said, the big question now is, “how do you know if he/she is the one?” Here are some few questions you need to answer to get an insight of the kind of person you are about to spend forever together.

1. Do you get inspired and be more than what you are? Being with your partner, you need to be elevated rather than being held down. When you are together, you need to feel more than a man/woman and at the same time be better for her/him.

2. Is there love between you two? Any relationship cannot exist without love. Either of you should show an unconditional love to each other which is not contingent of wealth, personal success, social status, family background or even career accomplishments. Your love should be attributed to who your partner is, in terms of character, values or ethics.

3. Do you foresee a future together? You should see your one being with you for the rest of your lives: for better and for worse, in riches and in poverty, in health and in sickness. Love is a lifetime affair, the players should stick with each other no matter the obstacles coming their way.

Having answered these questions correctly, you should also be aware of the following problems along the way while pursuing your long term relationship.

1. Infidelity/cheating- This includes financial infidelity, internet relationships (sexting), emotional infidelity among others.

2. Sexual problems– These include loss of libido and questions regarding your partner’s gender.

3. Boredom with your relationship affairs.

4. Domestic violence including verbal and physical abuse.

5. Failure by one of you in playing his/her responsibility for example financial support regarding the children’s education.

You should therefore try to overcome these problems so that you don’t become a victim of unplanned marriage. Some people opt for long distance relationships to overcome the boredom of being together for long. It is still healthy to be in such affair provided you set some rules like regular communication and surprise visits so that you can manage your expectation. With a genuine goal in mind, you can succeed in any relationship whether long distance or not.…